Note Title
You do not have access to this note.
You do not have access to this note.
Notes: Bella - the dog - very nervous
Helping her to find trust with her new family.
Video 1
Nervous dog....barking...tail between legs...hiding.... she's been in family 3 weeks....lost a lot of trust...
J - "Tell me about B, what's happened to her...how can I best help you?"
C - "wants her to settle in and trust us".
Bella comes in...when client speaking..
Sniffs James...wants to be with them...in room..chose to come into room...
Friend who is dog person, not client...
Bella gone out, as client talking...
Dog back in, on call of her name...smelling James....
Movement to her is a threat....(connection...dog fight, thru stones at them...)....
Humans represent being pushed away...
Need for affection....
2 things going on...I want to get to know you but I don't trust people...
Lost trust at home as got entagled whilst tied up, needs to build up trust again...
James... TT does that....does it by understanding that animals react to how we feel, and we react to how they feel, in that time you saw that she was panicking and then you were panicking and both of you together...
J - listening to you...I've been ever so still, hardly any movement, my mind (whilst paying attention to you) I'm keeping mind as quiet as possible....beacuse.she is so attentive... all I need with the TT is the animal's attention and then I go into a non thinking state... just as much as they react to our emotions and panic and we react to theirs, they also react to non-thought... now that's going past the mind and in that place...in that present moment, what happens is that we are teaching them to go beyond all those fears...now already (just without really focussing on it)Â it's enough for her to have a yawn, have a stretch and she's lying down.
Notes:Â Bella - the dog - very nervous
Helping her to find trust with her new family.
Video 1
Nervous dog....barking...tail between legs...hiding.... she's been in family 3 weeks....lost a lot of trust...
J - "Tell me about B, what's happened to her...how can I best help you?"
C - "wants her to settle in and trust us".
Bella comes in...when client speaking..
Sniffs James...wants to be with them...in room..chose to come into room...
Friend who is dog person, not client...
Bella gone out, as client talking...
Dog back in, on call of her name...smelling James....
Movement to her is a threat....(connection...dog fight, thru stones at them...)....
Humans represent being pushed away...
Need for affection....
2 things going on...I want to get to know you but I don't trust people...
Lost trust at home as got entagled whilst tied up, needs to build up trust again...
James... TT does that....does it by understanding that animals react to how we feel, and we react to how they feel, in that time you saw that she was panicking and then you were panicking and both of you together...
J - listening to you...I've been ever so still, hardly any movement, my mind (whilst paying attention to you) I'm keeping mind as quiet as possible....beacuse.she is so attentive... all I need with the TT is the animal's attention and then I go into a non thinking state... just as much as they react to our emotions and panic and we react to theirs, they also react to non-thought... now that's going past the mind and in that place...in that present moment, what happens is that we are teaching them to go beyond all those fears...now already (just without really focussing on it)Â it's enough for her to have a yawn, have a stretch and she's lying down. So right now we have a position...i know she's quite ok with me being here and she's there...
So what I'm going to do first is just go into that PM; keep body very still, I'm going to listen to a sound, and feel touch....if I feel I've lost her attention, I will very gently bring it back...and we're just going to see what happens if I spend 5 mins in this mode..
What I might do...is sit on the floor (waits until Bella ready)...
Bella's mind very busy.... makes her very jumpy. One little movemnt and she overreacts...