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Action Plan( should be done with your client)

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Feeling surfing

• situation that you would like to change: Difficult clients
• how does it make you feel: Irritation,frustration
• where do you feel it , in your body? Stomach
• You feel this feeling back to the root. Go back to the current feeling, so you can feel it in that area. I would like to ask yourself: where else have I felt this? When my dad would not understand/believe me
• When did i feel it, before that time? when my dad gave me the magic egg and he did not know how to use it. I felt also disappointed.
• when did i feel this feeling, before: nightmare...my mom would not hear me.( and the potty training)

Situation: Difficult clients

What actions do I need to do to deal with difficult clients?

1. 1- Kill them ( violent)
2. 2 Ignore them (fear)
3. 3 listen to them ( + assertive) with patience and love and compassion. But I also need to chose my clients.
4. Send a message to the universe to send me clients who want to work with me and are more complying

1. Always start by getting present and stay present until you feel peaceful
2. What actions do I need to do to make the situation peaceful?Wait for the reply and then write it down
3. Access if this is a peaceful answer.
4. If it is not a peaceful answer, go back and repeat the whole process., until you find a peaceful reply.

By now, you should have a peaceful answer. But we need to get a little bit deeper, so we have an action plan.

And how do I do that: I already started to do that. To go to right places and talk to right people.

And how? Do not expect too much of people. Try to find other clients in the new places I am going. Continuing with the articles, videos and seminars.

how? do not overload my schedule so I do not stress.