So pretty quickly he goes into the present moment because I mean, he certainly isn't lacking of
trust with me and I don't mean he has a lack of trust of people as such, it's just things isn't
it? Yeah. Because if it was a lack of trust of people, he would of nodded and then came back
up again and nodded but really he's dropping quite quickly, I mean, I'm obviously going to,
but look already, just by getting present a bit, he's got a little bit of a cheeky side coming out,
which I think is his character so
instantly just by getting present for a little bit we can see some character where as
just turning up, when he looked like the world was, that's a lot of character going on
so I'm gonna get present again to see, we'll just keep bringing him down
and then we can see where we can go from. I'm looking at his
getting sleepy, yawns if he's got lots of tension to let go of. We'll just go present again.
Yeah so look even going over to that black bin in the corner is frightening for him.
So he's just gone straight over, shown me the fear and then come straight back to me. So these are
things that he's afraid of. I think this would be relatively simple to help him. The biggest thing
is if they have trust with people and that's the first step but I'm going to get present again,
let's see if we can bring his mind down and then we can we can take that a step further.
Lovely and then off he goes again. If somebody makes you feel peaceful,
you trust them. If you make them feel peaceful enough, they will trust you
with a lot. What we're doing is we're making him feel peaceful,
he's letting go. In his view, I'm a pretty good guy, it's a nice feeling.
I'm interested to see what he lets go of here, if there's a few yawns.
It brings a connection between us so if he is a very nervous character and I come in daily and
make him feel present, he will look forward to me giving him peace of mind but the next step
is going to be what's important for him. To show him things that he's normally afraid of slowly
by reducing his mind and then introducing things to him means that he then builds confidence and
at the same time, he builds a stronger relationship with the person who's teaching him how to do it.
So for example, if I let him out and he looked at something, I would then bring his mind down
and whatever he looked at we would very slowly go over. I'd make sure he's a bit like this and
then we'll go over towards it, his head would come up, I'd bring his mind down
and as long as he stayed relaxed his brain will look at the scary thing in a different light
because if you're peaceful when normally you would be afraid, you see things in a completely different
way and you self-learn. So my job would be, he's trusting with me, I would take him to see things
that were frightening, I would bring his mind down and he would learn gosh, that's not frightening
and he built his own confidence. I call it realisation learning. They self-realise.
Obviously, something in his life is a bit spooked by everything
and I don't think people have given him the time and the patience to really understand
what spooked him so it just adds into his repertoire of things that are scary.
Even the little dog coming in just from where he was but he's looking curiously now rather than
really worried. So this guy does trust people and as long as the person's in the right state,
he's then in a position to let go of quite a lot. He is very, very intelligent,
very sensitive and very intelligent and I think it's been his downfall.
In other words, his sensitivity level, it's very easy to go too fast with him.
So just slowing everyone down, looking at how we can pull a carriage for example and breaking that
down into mini steps and helping him be peaceful with each step means that he will then be peaceful
pulling a cart, a carriage. And every time that we see that he looks a bit nervous,
we can just bring his mind down. So, but look I mean, all of these deep breaths. Yeah. I'm
saying to him you can be peaceful and he's going but I can't be peaceful because of this and then
he has to go, let it go and find a little bit more peace. So I think that interaction might be,
well, I've already known that he's a bit nervous of that black thing in the corner.
I'd love to work with him outside. Do you have a school?
Yeah. Do you have an indoor school? No. I'm just wondering, I mean, you got everything else here.
What's he like when you lead him out? He's good, yeah, he's very good, he's completely respectful.
No, that's not what I was asking, what's he like? I mean, respectful is one thing
but is he nervous? Can you see that there's nervousness? Yeah, sometimes, yeah. Well, what
we might do, I'd like to create the invisible lead with him. He's got trust with people,
wonderful. If someone was getting present with him daily, this horse will completely change.
You know, it's just that simple. Yeah, if you actually sat on the floor with him and got present, there's
a high possibility he'd lie down with you, which is just so sweet so, I mean, do have a look
at the first video tutorial and just learn that. It just saves time for me teaching it to you now
but I'd like to move forward a bit because I know if he's got trust with people, if I can create
the next step, which is an invisible lead, where he really listens on a very sensitive level because
we know is sensitive but in a very positive way that we're communicating with each other
clearly then the next step of showing him how to be confident with things will be very easy. I
think my job will be to show you how you can have a lot of fun, how you can build his confidence
and listening with each other and how we can take that to the next level because already he's still
feeling the first couple that I did because every time you get present with an animal, it's like an
accumulative effect. So I mean, bless him, he'll be on his knees if we keep doing this. If he was very
nervous with people then we'd see that because it would have taken him longer to get
present. I would have said you can be peaceful, but I can't be peaceful around people and then
we'd have had to have gone through that process but that's not the case. He hasn't gone down to
zero or one with me, he's gone down to the twos and there's two now, twos and ones but really for
the amount of time I haven't spent with him, that's wonderful. Sun's just popped out for us as well.