Notes: wer'e mindfully regarding the behavior, not so much the animal itself  be mindful of the effect and back off the intensity as needed.. alternate. let them set the pace. present moment/regard and listen/present...
when their mind comes up their physical head may also come up. watch body language.
create unconditional love. this means that using force and dominance conflicts with creating an atmosphere of peace and love. Â
keeping your eyes still. simplifies getting into present moment. Thinking = movement. (I move down and left). If you focus and keep eyes very very still you shouldn't need to focus on other senses.