Working with autistic kids and their families I appreciate sooooo enormously this approach. Its is just what I needed to overcome some obstacles in my work. The overthinkng metric and "letting go your own agenda" is an enormous gift to every familymemember. I have worked from a bit similar point of view (low affect approach) and it has been working but sometimes it has been difficult to explain - with thinking metric and shared feeling concepts it becomes so much easier. Very valuable stuff! Thank you form the bottom of my heart.